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Tag Archives: hospital births

Listen to Mothers: The Need for Change in Hospital Births

11 / 30 / 184 / 14 / 20
Listen to Mothers

They didn’t listen. Sometimes I watch my birth videos with my children (or I guess I should say, my ‘just after birth’ videos since births can’t be filmed at our hospital). And every time I’m sad. Deeply, deeply sad. Because a few years removed from my births, I see the bigger picture…I watch and hear… Read More

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Lori Beth Auldridge is a mama bear to three little girls. She and her husband Chris run a renovation business in upcountry Maui. Lori Beth dreams up the designs and Chris makes all those dreams come to life. Her days are filled with her favorite things... coffee, writing, homeschooling, babywearing, audiobooks, binge reading parenting articles, miniature goats, fancy chickens, exploring Maui, moms groups, and more coffee. Yayamamas is her way of spreading aloha and using her B.A., M.A., & M.F.A. degrees to put more good into the world.

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Our first moose sighting on the new property 🤯 Our first moose sighting on the new property 🤯 My mind is blown. Just one of many “where are we!?!?!” moments here on the mainland after almost 20 years on Maui. 😆 I imagine people feel the same way the first time they see a honu, monk seal, or humpback on Maui 😉

Grateful to have 3 giant dogs! 🙏🏼 

#idahome #moosesighting #wherearewe #holysmokes #mooseinthewild #mamamoose #babymoose
Thanksgiving prep has begun. Our hearts are happy. Thanksgiving prep has begun. Our hearts are happy. Our tastebuds expectant. And yet. 💔 For some of us there are some very special people missing from the table this year. And it’s hard. 

We make their recipes in their absence. We hope to do them justice, knowing they will never be the same. We cry in the pantry. We forge ahead. We feed our people. We love them big…and we grieve. It’s both. 

If this is a year you’re missing someone big time or missing something that was, know that I’m praying for you. Let’s pray for each other. If you’d like some extra prayers, feel free to share in the comments or in a DM 🙏🏼
I saw a post that said “The future isn’t femal I saw a post that said “The future isn’t female, it’s family” and it hasn’t left me since. 💙 THAT is a message that needs to be out there. THAT is the truth. 

Growing up I was brainwashed to believe that the messages of feminism were truth. But then I got married to a man that I love & the messages didn’t check out. Then I had a son. Add to that the fact that I love and respect my dad. And my grandpas. And uncles. And nephews. And a lot of men in my life, and suddenly all of the “girl power” messages hammered into my head via advertising, school, and the culture in general didn’t make sense. They also didn’t make room for them, in fact they taught me to look down on them, make fun of them, and devalue them. Many female “empowerment” messages create division. They create beliefs that someone is “better than” and that simply isn’t true. 

I think what they meant to communicate is that we all have value and up until that point, some people didn’t personally feel valued. But putting someone else down (i.e. all men) in an attempt to build yourself up? That’s not gonna work. It’s not going to give you tools to have peace in your everyday relationships. It’s not going to empower mothers to raise strong children whether they are raising boys or girls. 

And when I really think about it, every woman I know who champions “the future is female?” —they are either divorced, not married, or in unhappy relationships on the verge of divorce.  

I have never been able to reconcile within myself the notion that we should turn away from men, because those men also include people we love and respect like our husbands and sons. 

Now imagine an entire generation that hears the message that family is what it’s all about. Imagine the potential for strength and peace in everyday life if family was put first. 

Feel the need to be a rebel? Rebel against the toxic messages of our current culture that scream “the future is female” (while also claiming there is no such thing as female). Rebel in a way that changes the current culture and brings you peace, security, and mutual respect in your relationships.

#thefutureisfamily
My cup runneth over…and so did my plate 😉 La My cup runneth over…and so did my plate 😉

Last night I celebrated “Friendsgiving” with my mom friends here in Idaho. I’m not 100% sure I’ve ever been to a friendsgiving…truthfully, the name always turned me off. To me it was always a random thing people in their early 20s did—you know, your 20s when you think your drinking buddies and being “cool” are the most important things. Your early 20s when you’ve turned away from your family and try to create things to replace what you’ve lost. 

At 43, that is not what I crave at all. Last night’s gathering blew my past assumptions right out of the water. It was beauty & gratitude all around. The food…the people…the conversations…the memories we have…the memories we’re making…the way we celebrate & encourage one another. It was stunning from start to finish. I’m so grateful for these strong, passionate women in my life. I’m grateful they value what’s important in life. And that they take the time to pause and celebrate everything we have together. 

Thank you for hosting, @danikanormannn Thank you for pulling us together, @krunchymamabear Thank you for including me, @redheadhippielife 😘 

I’m not sure I can tag everyone who was there, but thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart for the ease, depth, and encouragement you bring to my life. 💜
Grace laced indeed. 💙 This interview with @ruth Grace laced indeed. 💙 This interview with @ruthchousimons needed exactly zero editing. Ruth is so generous in this episode…her calm, gentle voice is just what you need today. Her new book Pilgrim is just what you need on your coffee table as a daily reminder of the beauty & strength of God’s character. 

I believe in God‘s timing. Within a few hours of releasing this episode, I got a message from a listener saying that this episode was perfectly timed for their life. 🙏🏼 That’s all I want, mamas. I want words of encouragement to find their way into your life at just the right moment for you. 💕 My heart is full today thinking about the positive impacts of @elevatingmotherhood 🥰 I hope this episode blesses you, too. 😘
I shared a very personal story today in The Elevat I shared a very personal story today in The Elevating Homeschool Community… I wasn’t really planning on jumping into the deep end of the pool to start the group, but here we are. Want to tread water with me and talk about it? Join the community via the link in my bio 😘
New Episodes of @elevatingmotherhood are here! 🥳 Start with Episode 152 for a candid behind the scenes explanation of why I took the summer off from the podcast. 💙 

I’ve had so many mamas reach out to me about this particular episode 😱 Your feedback has been encouraging…I’ve really enjoyed your messages about it 🥰

Have you listened? Tune in! Get caught up! Cause two more are coming your way soon!
It was soooooooo lovely meeting mamas today at @pa It was soooooooo lovely meeting mamas today at @paideianorthwest 💕 What a beautiful gathering of incredible mamas! 🥰

Thanks to everyone who stopped by my booth, signed up for my email list, subscribed to the podcast, joined the Elevating Homeschool Community, & shared your stories and smiles with me! 

Thanks, Melissa, for another memorial gathering! 💗
I have so much to share with you about homeschool. I have so much to share with you about homeschool. 💗 I want my shares to be meaningful & encouraging, simple & doable. 

If you are looking for off-social-media homeschool support that brings more peace to your homeschool days, join me in the Elevating Homeschool Community. 🌺 

Link in bio 😘

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